Thursday, November 06, 2025

The I've Been Dumped Weekly Link Round-Up

 


For quite awhile, someone at the agency responsible for sending a home health nurse to my house twice weekly to clean and bandage my leg has been wanting to get rid of me. I'm not quite sure why, other than having a leg that just does not want to heal completely, but that person had quite the bee in her bonnet. My home health nurse fought the good fight, but for every point he raised, she had a comeback. What kind of comeback? Let me tell you, she had some doozies. "She can either change the bandages herself [not limber enough] or she can pay someone to do it for her [when did I win the lottery?]." "She can sell her house and move into assisted living [not with a reverse mortgage, I can't]." 


See what I mean about doozies? Full of the milk of human kindness, she is. Of course, she's probably just trying to save the agency a penny or two, but...! Now I'm scrambling to find a replacement because she insisted on my discharge. Never fear, I shall persist and overcome. 😊

While this has been going on, the weather has been absolutely gorgeous, and I've been working on my Vitamin D levels... plus continuing my clear-out a shelf at a time. My mood is lighter, and I even have a bit of zip in my doodah. Nice, eh?

Now that I've got more zip, I'm thinking about how I want to decorate my house for the holidays. It's not going to be anything like the years when I had a forest of Christmas trees, but I'm finding that it can be fun to think small. And while I'm plotting, clearing out, knitting, and searching for a new home health nurse, I hope you're all doing well. Virtual hugs to you all!

Enjoy the links!


►Books & Other Interesting Tidbits◄

►Channeling My Inner Indiana Jones◄

►Channeling My Inner Elly May Clampett◄



►The Wanderer◄

►Fascinating Folk◄
  • Artist Marco Grassi crates hyperrealistic paintings teeming with microscopic details.
  • Designer Vera West created iconic costumes for Bride of Frankenstein and other classic monster movies. Her mysterious life ended tragically.
  • It's almost impossible for Tristan Gooley to get lost. That's one reason he has millions of followers.
  • Sixteen-year-old Isaque Carvalho Borges invented an A.I. tool to help cool down the world's hottest cities.
  • Jen Pawol became the first female umpire in major league baseball history.
  • Maria Mitchell, America's first woman astronomer and mentor to women in science.
  • See hundreds of garments that Elizabeth II wore throughout her seven-decade reign.
  • Jim Lovell, the Apollo 13 commander who thrived under pressure, died in August at the age of 97.

►I ♥ Lists◄

That's all for this week! No matter how busy you may be, don't forget that quality Me Time curled up with a good book!  

Tuesday, November 04, 2025

October 2025 at the Desert Botanical Garden

I took a trip to one of my favorite places, the Desert Botanical Garden, the week before Halloween. The weather was glorious, and for once the place wasn't heaving with people. In many of my favorite spots, I felt as though I had the place all to myself, which was quite nice. 

Here are some of the photos I took. I hope you enjoy your virtual visit.


Purple was the color of choice, with Texas sage, Mexican petunias, asters, lavender, and other beauties blooming like crazy. No place else on earth shows its appreciation for rain faster than the desert.










I love how light often gives the cactus a halo.


It's been years since I've seen these cardon cacti (which have been here at the Garden since 1938) so happy and swollen with water. Those storms we got at the end of September were badly needed.


The honeysuckle was blooming like mad.


Two women standing in front of one of the installations of the latest "draw" to the Garden: Desert Pulse. I wasn't that impressed, but I do think this would be much more impressive at night.


A male and female Gambel's quail.


I had almost three dozen quail surrounding me at the Patio Cafe. I always bring raw sunflower kernels to feed them, but this time I had a new treat: dried mealy worms, and they were quite the hit. I'll be bringing them more in the future.


This lizard was basking in the sun in a spot where it thought no one would see it. It didn't anticipate ole Eagle Eye here with my zoom lens!


Part of the Garden's Halloween display.


The Butterfly Pavilion has become so popular that it now has a nursery.


Monarch butterfly


This feeder was very popular.


The Butterfly Pavilion will be closing in a few days, but it will return in the spring.


It was nice to be outside in glorious weather and at one of my very favorite places, but I have to admit that I did miss Denis. Very much.

Monday, November 03, 2025

Return to Sender by Craig Johnson

 
First Line: "Nobody smiles anymore."

The longest postal route in the country is in the Red Desert of Wyoming, and it covers over three hundred miles a day. When Blair McGowan, the person responsible for that route, goes missing, there's a lot of territory to cover to try to find her. Who does the Postal Inspector for the State of Wyoming turn to? Sheriff Walt Longmire, who poses as a mail carrier to follow her trail. 

The trail eventually leads to a cult living out in the Red Desert, and Walt finds himself right up to his neck in intrigue.

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I always enjoy any time that I spend with Walt Longmire, and Return to Sender is no exception-- especially since every time I picked up the book and looked at the cover, my favorite Elvis Presley song began playing in my mind.

Once again, author Craig Johnson brings another section of Wyoming to life. This time, the Red Desert, the largest living dune system in the United States. Walt is pretty much solo as he goes undercover as a mail carrier. Only Dog accompanies him in a rather unique mode of transport: an old Travelall.

Return to Sender is filled with Johnson's trademark humor ("Benny, the walking skid mark"), and Walt is carrying something with him that may shock longtime fans. As he works to find the missing Blair McGowan, he meets several characters that I wish I could see again, like World War II Polish Resistance fighter, Mrs. Wasserstein. The story is filled with twists and turns that kept me smiling.

Walt is still debating whether or not he should retire, and he's not helped any when he's put right in the middle of someone else's choice. What's he going to decide to do? I'm looking forward to finding out in the next book.

Return to Sender by Craig Johnson
ISBN:  9780593830703
Viking © 2025
Hardcover, 336 pages

Police Procedural, #21 Walt Longmire
Rating: A
Source: Purchased from The Poisoned Pen.

Thursday, October 30, 2025

An Unplanned Treats Weekly Link Round-Up

 


This past Sunday was the first time in a long time that I've felt like "me." It's been so long that I was surprised when I realized it. Life does go on. 

I've been taking it easy with my clearing out and reorganizing things in the house. I overdid it to the point where my lower back was killing me and I could barely move my right arm. (I really don't want to check the odometer on my scooter either!) Life goes on, but some things never change... like the fact that I'm a goal-oriented person, and once I have a plan in mind, my common sense can get tossed out the window. A drawer at a time, a shelf at a time is my current mantra. 

Tucker, the woman who cuts my hair, is about to become a first-time grandma, and I told her to go through my stash of baby blankets and choose as many as she liked for her grandbaby. She chose two and gave them to her daughter Monday. It was a treat, and Taylor was thrilled, as you can see in the photo. 



Speaking of treats-- it is Halloween after all-- I received an unplanned one from a special person that made me smile. Unexpected acts of friendship and kindness can be such spirit lifters. May all of you receive some unplanned treats of your own. Virtual hugs to you all.

Enjoy the links!


►Books & Other Interesting Tidbits◄

►Channeling My Inner Indiana Jones◄

►Channeling My Inner Elly May Clampett◄
  • Horseshoe crab blood has long helped us make safe medicines. Now alternatives that spare the ancient creatures might be breaking through.
  • See this year's hilarious finalists from the Nikon Comedy Wildlife Awards, from gossiping leopards to breakdancing foxes.
  • "Feisty" otters are once again hijacking surfboards in Santa Cruz.
  • To hide from predators, some animals camouflage into their surroundings, while others display bright colors as a warning. What keeps them safest?
  • Getting annoyed at your noisy neighbor? Spiders are, too. New research finds they'll build webs differently in loud conditions.
  • Texas puma genes rescue Florida panthers from extinction-- for now.



►The Wanderer◄

►Fascinating Folk◄
  • See how Manet and Morisot's creative friendship influenced their artistic styles.
  • The mystery Waterloo soldier depicted in a painting at London's National Army Museum has been identified.
  • Thirteen-year-old painting prodigy Andres Valencia releases his first limited-edition print collection.
  • Trailblazing dancer Misty Copeland performed one last time before retiring from the American Ballet Theater.
  • The Amazon has been Peruvian artist Sara Flores' home, inspiration, and palette. Now the world is her gallery.
  • Molly Young is the GOAT book recommender.

►I ♥ Lists◄

That's all for this week! No matter how busy you may be, don't forget that quality Me Time curled up with a good book!  

Tuesday, October 28, 2025

Dia de los Muertos 2025 at Casa Kittling

 I put up my ofrenda for Dia de los Muertos early this year, probably because I'm rattling around in Casa Kittling solo and missing a few special people. However, it just dawned on me that it really doesn't matter when I do things. For example, if I want to have Christmas decorations up year round, there's nothing to stop me, right?  😉

By the way, it just occurred to me that some of you may not be familiar with Dia de los Muertos and what an ofrenda is. Here's what Google says: 

"An ofrenda is a traditional altar or offering set up in homes during Mexico's Día de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) celebration to honor deceased loved ones. Families create them to welcome the spirits of the dead back to the world of the living for the holiday, decorating them with photos, favorite foods and drinks, candles, and personal belongings to create a welcoming and celebratory space. The ofrenda is intended to welcome the spirits of deceased relatives back to visit their families. It is a place of joyous recollection and celebration, not sorrow, meant to remember the cherished moments shared with the deceased."

I've never been a fan of Halloween. When I was growing up, it seemed to be a time of tricks and not treats. Toilet paper strung everywhere, drive-by rotten tomato throwers, and the like. When I moved to Phoenix, I found Dia de los Muertos much more my style. I love the colors and the meaning of the celebration even though I don't have a traditional ofrenda. (For example, I don't put food on my ofrenda.)

Here are a few photos of my Dia de los Muertos ofrenda.


This table has the family photos.


This table holds some of the Dia de los Muertos items I've collected over the years.


The large photo is of my mother and me. Mom was incredibly camera-shy, but the last time we visited my grandparents/her parents, she insisted on being included in a couple of photos. It's almost as if she knew this would be the last time we'd all be together. The Donald Duck figure is in honor of my dad's (small photo-- the one Mom carried in her wallet) spot-on imitation of the Disney quacker. He liked to sit in the movie theater and give Donald x-rated dialogue during the cartoons.


Top photo: my grandfather. Next one down: my grandmother. Lower left: my aunt and uncle. Lower right: my great-grandparents. The chicken is for my mother (it wouldn't fit on the other stand). She had a long-standing feud with one of my great-grandmother's chickens. The little sewing machine is for my grandmother, who made most of my clothes when I was a child. She even made my prom dress.


I couldn't forget to show my Dia de los Muertos playing cards. Growing up, winter Saturday nights were spent at my grandparents' playing pinochle and canasta.


Denis's digital photo frame that cycles through many photos taken over the years we were together. The Kodak truck is for his work at Kodak. The yellow submarine is for his years as a submariner and also for his love of the Beatles. This photo was taken at the Oath Ceremony when he became an American citizen.



If any of you noticed the knitted runners on the tables, yes, I made them. Like I said at the beginning, I love the bright colors of Dia de los Muertos. They are an immediate sign that this is not a sad time but a time to celebrate.

Monday, October 27, 2025

Contesting the Wool by Diane Vallere

 
First Line: The reading of Reginald Villamere's will was the event of the season, and until last week, I didn't know the man existed.

It was a shock when Poly Monroe learned she was going to inherit something from millionaire Reginald Villamere. She never knew the man who preserved San Ladron's historic movie theater, but her relatives did. Since Villamere's thirty-year-old will named them and they were both dead, Poly inherited in their place. When she goes to the theater to see her inheritance, she finds one of Villamere's lawyers dead in a storage room.

Townspeople are more interested in "who got what" in Villamere's will than they are in the murder of a stranger, so it's up to Poly to unravel all the clues and button down the killer.



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The more books I read by Diane Vallere, the more I find we have in common, like believing that one of life's great experiences is watching a movie in an empty theater. In Contesting the Wool, readers follow Poly in and out of a historic theater, and I enjoyed every minute.

One of the things I love about this Material Witness series is the creativity with which Vallere imbues her main character. In this sixth entry, Poly is inspired by her inheritance, and I loved watching her brainstorm a new idea to grow her business. 

I also admit I had to smile when I learned that the plot revolved around a thirty-year-old will that raised no questions, especially since the will was a millionaire's. You see, I recently had problems getting a thirteen-year-old will accepted by various businesses. ("There could be others floating around!" one person said.) I guess that's one of the perks of being a millionaire? But that will really keeps the plot hopping from named beneficiaries to those who thought they should have been included-- and weren't. 

No matter how strong the plots are, this series shines because of its cast of characters. Not just Poly, but her friend, Charlie, who has the best auto repair shop in San Ladron and relishes her reputation as the town's bad girl. Charlie lives life on her own terms, and her character grows with each book. By the way, so does Poly's. For one thing, she's learning that she can't keep expecting her parents to fill in whenever she needs help in her fabric shop. But it's not just Charlie and Poly. There's Sheriff Clark, Tiki Tom, Duke, Poly's old boss Giovanni... the list goes on. 

If you haven't given the Material Witness series a try, I hope you'll change that. A great cast, humor, good mysteries to solve, and watching creativity in action. What's not to like?

Contesting the Wool by Diane Vallere
eISBN: 9781954579231
Polyester Press © 2025
eBook, 277 pages

Cozy Mystery, #6 Material Witness
Rating: B+
Source: Net Galley

Wednesday, October 22, 2025

A Tempus Fugit Weekly Link Round-Up

 


I've got lots going on today, and if all goes well, I'll be boarding Dial-a-Ride for a trip to the Desert Botanical Garden tomorrow morning. Since my attention is being pulled in multiple directions, I wanted to make sure I got this link round-up posted because I know I won't have time in the next two days.

So...very little chatter before the links. I'll just share a sneak peek at something I'll be sharing next week...


...and add that, as I was reading in bed last night, a fight scene in Lee Goldberg's Killer Thriller made me laugh so loud that I woke up the neighbors' grumpy dog! I hope you are well and happy and have plenty of good books to read. Virtual hugs to you all!

Enjoy the links!


►Books & Other Interesting Tidbits◄

►Channeling My Inner Indiana Jones◄

►Channeling My Inner Elly May Clampett◄
  • Sea otters may be small marine mammals, but their effect on an ecosystem can be huge.
  • Does your dog love chasing a ball? A study suggests that dog toy "addiction" is real.
  • The Asian Golden Cat: the "Feline of many costumes" that plucks birds before eating them.
  • Indian Relay may just be America's most extreme sport.
  • Birds make an alarm call that spans species and continents-- and may offer insight into the evolution of human language.
  • U.S. whale entanglements are on the rise.



►The Wanderer◄
  • You can see the Parthenon without scaffolding for the first time in decades.
  • After the L.A. fires, locals turn to native plants to help shield homes from flames and clean contaminated soil. (Personal Pet Peeve: People who move here to the desert and proceed to turn their property into a clone of where they moved from. This is the desert, not the bleedin' Midwest!)
  • Seven ways to see the world come alive at sunrise.
  • Step away from Peru's Inca Trail to these five lesser-known wonders.
  • Chainsaw-wielding robbers flee the Louvre with priceless jewelry.
  • Get an eyeful of Iceland in these twenty photos that capture its natural beauty.

►Fascinating Folk◄
  • Zelia Nuttall, the globe-trotting scholar who unlocked the secrets of the Aztecs.
  • Artist Iris Scott uses finger painting to evoke a rush of emotion with her fantasy-inspired compositions. (Definitely not your run-of-the-mill finger painting!)
  • William Dampier, the pirate who penned the first English-language guacamole recipe.
  • "You think me a bold cheat" -- Mary Carleton, counterfeit princess.
  • Dan Pelzer kept a meticulous list of all 3,599 books he'd read since 1962. When he died, his family published it online.
  • Martin Couney, the man who ran a carnival attraction that saved thousands of premature babies, wasn't a doctor at all.

►I ♥ Lists◄

That's all for this week! No matter how busy you may be, don't forget that quality Me Time curled up with a good book!